What is prostate massage?
As the name suggests: massage of the prostate. The prostate is a small gland the size of a walnut located below the penis. The prostate is a sensitive gland that you reach through the anus, and is sometimes also called the 'male G-spot' or 'P-spot'. Massaging this gland provides erotic stimuli. In addition it's healthy and can slow down infections and other ailments. Massaging the prostate is sometimes also called 'prostate milking'. You can massage your prostate yourself, you can ask your partner to do it, or you can use a prostate stimulator. More information on prostate massage can be found here!
1. How do you massage the prostate yourself?
It's possible to internally massage your prostate yourself. How? Read the explanation here:
Please note: When you're massaging the prostate the first feeling you get is of having to pee. This is very normal and usually goes away again rather quickly.
- Lie down on your back and pull up your knees.
- Relax your sphincter.
- Apply lubricant to your finger - index or middle finger are easiest - and slowly insert it into the anus.
- Point your finger in the direction of your bellybutton.
- Push the finger inside about 5 cm. You will now feel a bulge the size of a walnut. This is the prostate.
- Rub your finger over the prostate and/or slowly move the prostate up and down.
2. Letting your partner massage your prostate
Allowing your partner to internally massage your prostate is very relaxing and intimate. Make sure your partner uses plenty of lubricant, and possibly a condom. They can take the steps described above. Make sure you clearly communicate what you like and don't like and how your partner can best massage your prostate, to achieve the best results.
3. External massage
You can also massage the prostate externally. How? By applying a little pressure to the perineum, the are between the anus and the scrotum. Use your thumb or your knuckles and carefully move them up and down.
Every man reacts differently to a prostate massage. One might utterly enjoy it while the other doesn't think much of it. With some men it releases emotions of anger or sadness. Others don't feel very emotional. Some men achieve orgasm through a prostate massage, but this is definitely not always the case. In short: try and experiment and decide for yourself what you like, alone or with your partner.
A prostate stimulator is an anal sex toy that stimulates the prostate. You'll find more information on these sex toys here.
Types of prostate stimulators
There are different types of prostate stimulators. Which model you choose also depends on how you will use it. Below you will find more information on the different models.