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      What is BDSM?

      BDSM involves everything from bondage/discipline and domination/submission, to sadism/masochism. This incorporates a lot more than just hitting and spanking each other with whips while tied up in handcuffs. Couples and individuals who practise BDSM either completely surrender to someone else or take control of their ‘slave(s)’. It can take a lot of stamina, trust and a bit of guts. And of course a hefty dose of interest in the phenomenon. Are you longing to push the limits of your pleasure? Then BDSM is definitely for you!

      How does BDSM work?

      BDSM works best when participants assume entirely opposite roles, one of which is submissive, the other dominant. Communication is key, so you should first discuss and agree who will take on which position before starting. You should also always discuss and establish your limits. This is very important so things don’t get out of hand!

      It is not always a requirement to start the practise of BDSM by wearing nipple clamps or using products such as whips. For a good starting point, we recommend you checking out our bondage starter kit. The items included in the kit are always safe. You’ll be able to experiment with the various products within it to discover what works best for you and your partner.

      When is BDSM right for me?

      If you want to push your pleasure boundaries without crossing your limit, then BDSM could be very suitable for you! This is especially true when you enter this game of discipline with a partner or someone you’re familiar with and whom you can trust. Start your BDSM experience by using ropes, handcuffs, or even bondage masks to see how you feel. If you enjoy these experiences these products provide, then you can start to spice things up by experimenting with more exciting accessories. But only at your own pace, of course. There is no need to rush!

      Which BDSM toys can I choose from?

      For beginners to advanced practitioners, there is a wide range of BDSM toys available that feature many different functions and uses. You can choose from handcuffs, whips and nipple clamps which we have mentioned above. However, you can also make BDSM more exciting with the following products:

      • Electrosex: these are various devices that will, as the name indicates, provide you with an electric shock!
      • Speculums: speculums were originally medical devices to open body cavities and keep them that way...
      • Bondage masks: these will keep you guessing what naughty things your partner will do next!
      • SM candles: these candles have been designed to allow wax to drip onto your or your partner's skin!
      • Pinwheels: with these toys, you will experience a whole new sense of ‘stimulation’.
      • Sex machines: these are physically or electronically powered devices to stimulate artificial penetration.
      • Penis plugs: for penetrating the urethra, which will stimulate countless nerve endings. We highly recommend people who are inexperienced with this sensation to go with a dilator.
      • Ticklers: pain can feel easy compared to the effects of these toys! You’ll just have to handle it...

      What kind of clothing is suitable for BDSM?

      How about no clothing? If you want to dress up for the occasion, a kinky outfit is exactly what you need. Fortunately, at Pabo we have a variety of kinky women’s fetish clothing and men’s fetish clothing available in latex, leather, wetlook and vinyl. These outfits not only set the right mood but will also grant easy access to your most desirable body parts! Thongs and panties with built-in dildos can also make every BDSM game extra sexual. When it comes to clothing and accessories, it just depends on what gets you excited!