The name Shibari is Japanese for “connect” and “knots”. Other terms are also widely used, such as Kinbaku and Kinbaku-bi. These mean “to tie tightly” and “the beauty of tying tightly”. Restriction of freedom and pleasure go hand in hand with an emphasis on the artistic and visual side of bondage. The challenge is to tie someone up as beautifully as possible, while simultaneously exerting pressure and stimulating sensitive areas. “Standard” bondage, on the other hand, is mainly exciting and is used to confirm where your sub stands (or not). Shibari can almost be called an art form.
How does Shibari bondage work?
First of all, you will need someone you trust completely and vice versa. Of course, proper preparation is extremely important. You will need to be familiar with the components that you apply and have sufficient knowledge about circulation and stimulation. This way, you will avoid any unnecessary risks.
Communicate thoroughly with each other to make sure you are on the same page. Agree on a stop word and the different positions in which the sub will be tied. Next, the intention is to tie a whole series of knots around your partner’s body, originally using a 7 metre rope. By putting pressure on the most sensitive areas, your partner will experience an intense pleasure!
Important to note: take good care of your partner! Never just leave your sub alone and make sure the experience is enjoyable for both of you. Since the experience can be quite intense for the person being tied up, it’s always nice to pamper him or her afterwards. Whether this is with a hug or a massage, something to eat or drink, provide your sub with whatever he or she needs.
How do you use a Shibari bondage rope?
You use the rope by tying it around your sub’s body. There are many complicated knots that you may master along the way. For example, start with the Takate Kote, which is also called “Box Tie”. This knot is where the arms and breasts of the sub are tied, and the arms and hands come together at the back. This video shows how to apply this knot.
There are also different poses. That is why you are recommended to continue with this video, the Ebi, which is also called Shrimp. Originally, this was a torture method, which is not surprising. The chest and neck are connected to the ankles while the sub is in a tailor position. That way, the person being tied is forced to bend over.
What kind of bondage ropes are suitable for Shibari?
For a look and feel of a real Shibari work of art, we heartily recommend using ropes made of hemp or jute. It is of course up to what you and your sub find enjoyable. These materials themselves are quite rough. To lessen this coarse sensation, you can choose to braid your hemp or jute rope around a cotton bondage rope. This way you will benefit from a strong and attractive appearance in one!
How do I maintain a Shibari bondage rope?
If your ropes are made of natural materials, it is important to wash them thoroughly after use. For jute and hemp ropes, you can choose beeswax to treat them. Burn off any loops with a lighter. Only when you are sure that the rope is completely dry after washing, store it carefully. Never close the box or other storage place completely! Due to hemp, jute, and cotton being made of natural materials, they can rot and mould.
Where can I buy my Shibari bondage rope?
Of course, you have to go to Pabo for this! Your Shibari adventure will start once you visit your online erotic specialist. Our website clearly indicates which ropes are suitable for this Japanese art form. For any other style of bondage and BDSM in general, you have also come to the right place. Everything from chains and cuffs to hogties and nipple clamps can be found here. Combine these and other sex toys in the most creative ways!
